Please click here to visit our sponsor

Mesothelioma Cancer Diagnosed: Dealing With Emotions


People deal with and react to having cancer in different ways. There really isn't a right or wrong way to behave or feel regarding this disease and it is easily forgotten that partners, family and friends will need support as well.

Initial response, not only from the patient, is often disbelief..."There must be a mistake! The test results must be wrong!", followed by questions on cures, care and 'anything that you can do for me' issues. Shock sets in.

Naturally the patient will be afraid and unsure about his future. Though they may not show these reactions outwardly, they almost certainly will be thinking about them. Don't assume that just because they appear 'brave' on the outside that they are 'taking it well'.

Some patients will find it easier to talk with family and friends about their future than others do. Doing this may help the patient themselves come to terms with the diagnosis. Conversely, there are those that find it difficult to talk about it to anyone. It that is the case then let them be. The patient has the right to be firm on the issue, in the short term anyway.

On the other side of the coin, friends and relatives may appear to be denying the diagnosis, changing the subject and playing down the patient's worries and anxiety during conversations. Perhaps its a coping mechanism for some people. Nevertheless, the patient should confront them about these responses; they may be hurtful and it isn't going to help the patient if he/she wishes to discuss the matter.

Anger will almost certainly show itself in one way or another. Often anger is aimed at those closest to the patient and the medical staff treating them. Patients shold not feel guilty about being angry and irritable. It is aimed at the illness and not others. It might be difficult, but the patient could explain this to them, or show them relevant leaflets.

If the patient believes that your mesothelioma was caused by an employer and exposure to asbestos, they may feel resentment towards them. They could contact and or join a group that has been set up to deal with such issues. The patient may feel some relief through this strategy and there may even be some legal claim to be instigated.

Some patients may want to be left alone for a period to 'sort themselves out' but friends and relatives may find this a difficult period as they naturally want to help. The patient could reassure them that they will discuss the issues when they are ready.

Strong emotions are to be expected and dealt with. For both patient, friends and relatives.

(c) Paul Curran, CEO of Cuzcom Internet Publishing Group and webmaster at Information on Mesothelioma, providing information about mesothelioma and mesothelioma news.



Super Strong Antimicrobial Coatings For Medicine, Defense
Science Daily (press release) - 1 hour ago
"Such robust, antimicrobial materials have significant promise in applications including medicine, aerospace engineering, public transportation, ...


Old Crow Medicine Show's Don Was Produced CD Set For Release
antiMUSIC.com, CA - 13 hours ago
When asked why he chose to work with OCMS, Don Was explains: "People ask me what The Old Crow Medicine Show are all about. If I'm in a hurry, ...


Lowe Roche's Travelling Medicine Show
Globe and Mail, Canada - 1 hour ago
Step right up to the Palace of Wonders! Observe the woman who can't figure out how to post Lowe Roche's Stingray Bay commercial in which a submarine ...


Fresenius gets some APP medicine for $3.7 billion
BloggingStocks - 1 hour ago
It's been a good year for APP Pharmaceuticals Inc. (NASDAQ: APPX), as the stock price has climbed from $10 to $23.50. Today there was some extra good news: ...


Music, the best medicine
Hindustan Times, India - 6 hours ago
Music therapy is applied in ayurvedic healing treatment. Of late, though, music therapy has become more widespread and has a scientific rationale behind it. ...


Good medicine: BioNetwork plans high-tech training center in WS
Bizjournals.com, NC - Jul 5, 2008
The center, which should be open by the beginning of 2009, will train students and workers already in the industry on the latest tools used in the ...


Natural Medicine: Should you see a dietitian?
Seattle Post Intelligencer - 21 hours ago
... the natural health sciences, and clinical training at Bastyr Center for Natural Health (bastyrcenter.org), the region's largest natural medicine clinic.


Turkish Doctor Admitted To International Academy Of Perinatal Medicine
Turkish Press, MI - 4 hours ago
Dr. Zehra Nese Kavak has been admitted to the International Academy of Perinatal Medicine (IAPM), one of the world's most prestigious organizations in its ...


New method: More meds, more quickly for type 2 diabetes
USA Today - 13 hours ago
But Ralph DeFronzo, professor of medicine and chief of the diabetes division at the University of Texas Health Science Center in San Antonio, advocates what ...


Long Time MU Sports Medicine Doctor Dies
WSAZ-TV, WV - Jul 5, 2008
(WSAZ) -- Long time Marshall University sports medicine doctor and well-known local physician Dr. Jose Ricard has died. His daughter, Jackie Ricard, ...
Dr. Jose Ricard, longtime MU team physician, dies at 81 Huntington Herald Dispatch
Herd Family loses Dr. Ricard, Donte Newsome GoHerd.com
Dr. Jose Ricard: A Memory from Herd Insider GoHerd.com
WSAZ-TV
all 13 news articles

Medicine - Google News

home | site map

© 2006 www.elearn-university.org